3 TIPS ON HOW TO GET IN TUNE WITH THE REAL YOU!

How do you genuinely connect with the real you? How do you really figure out if something suits you or not? Here are 3 tips that would help you figure those things out a little better :


If it doesn't feel right, chances are it isn't you.

You shouldn't feel uncomfortable with whatever it is that your pursuing. If something doesn't feel right, then most likely it isn't something that suits your character or that's going to benefit you.This is when your self conscious speaks. Listen to your self conscious and follow your instincts because usually, they're always right.

MY TOP 3 GUILTY PLEASURES & MY 3 NEW HEALTHIER SUBSTITUTES :)

Guilty pleasures, unfortunately everyone has them. How can something so bad feel so right? Luckily, I've got a solution for a few. Here are my top 3 guilty pleasures and my 3 healthier new substitutes/solutions, you can thank me later :)


1.) ICECREAM !!!

Who doesn't like a sweet treat sometimes? Whether your sad or happy, icecream is suitable for any occasion. This sweet delight just has the magical ability to make you feel good!! But unfortunately, it's not good for your body. It's OK to gorge on icecream sometimes but take a break once in a while. If your sweet tooth is still screaming for more instead try:

THINKING ABOUT GETTING A NEW HAIRCUT? TOP 3 BOB HAIRCUTS FOR THE SUMMER SEASON!!

Hair is beautiful!! Whether it's short, long, curly or straight, the way you style your hair can say a lot about who you are.Usually during the hot summer season, a lot of people are chopping off their long tresses and sporting more shorter and edgier cuts. I joined the club last summer and cut my mid-length hair to a stylish bob. Here are 3 short bob styles that you can try this summer if your thinking about giving your gorgeous locks a trim :)

BELIEVE THAT WHAT YOU POSSESS IS GOING TO POSITIVELY IMPACT THE WORLD SOMEDAY.

Believe in your talents and your abilities.

Just an inspirational post. Comment down below :)

xo Sarahi

3 THINGS TO DO WHEN YOU HAVE NOTHING TO DO.

Everyone has those days where it seems like there is nothing to do and your just staring at the walls waiting for something fun to just magically happen. Well stare no more!! Here are the top 3 things that I do to keep me busy and boredom-free!!

1.) GET CREATIVE

Write in your journal ,draw a portrait or make a vase. There are a million things that you can make and that are simple to create. You don't have to be Picasso to get your creative juices going. Get on your internet and search for easy  and fun DIY tutorials.

WHAT DO YOUR SHOES SAY ABOUT YOU? 3 SHOE STYLES THAT SAY A LOT ABOUT WHO YOU ARE.

Since my "What does your hair say about you?" post was so loved and well received by you guys, I decided to do a remake of that post but with shoes. Shoes are a great way to lift an outfit from a 0 to a 10. They add extra personality to your outfit if you choose the right pair of shoes to go along with your fashionable look. Here are 3 types of shoes that are widely popular and are very expressive :)

YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL,IT'S TRUE.

Currently on repeat, Thank you James Blunt. :)

"I saw your face, in a crowded place, and I don't know what to do...'cause I'll never be with you."

3 TIPS ON HOW TO DEAL WITH THE STRUGGLES OF TRANSITIONING FROM TEENAGER TO ADULT.

Nothings weirder than the crazy transition phase that you go through when your leaving your teenage years behind and stepping into adulthood. I'm going through that phase right now and let me tell you...it freakin' sucks. I don't know about you guys but to me it just all seems really overwhelming sometimes and just makes me want to curl up into a ball, in my room and just stay there,forever. But, life wouldn't be life if it didn't scare you sometimes. Here are 3 tips on how to deal with this messy transition phase in your life :)

MY TOP 20 FAVORITE OLD SCHOOL JAMS.

1.) Your Beautiful - James Blunt

2.) Beautiful Love - The Afters

3.) My Love - Justin Timberlake

4.) All The Same - Sick Puppies

5.) Promiscuous - Nelly Furtado ft Timbaland

6.) Hot In Here - Nelly

7.) Ride Wit Me - Nelly

8.) Pass The Courvoiser - Busta Rhymes ft P.Diddy & Pharell

9.) Frontin' - Pharell ft Snoop Dogg

10.) She Wants To Move - N.E.R.D

11.) You And Me - Life House

12.) Blue (Da Ba Dee)  - Eiffell 65

13.) Let It Burn - Usher

14.) When I See You - Fantasia

15.) Maria, Maria - Carlos Santana ft The Product G & B

16.) It's Gonna Be Me - NSYNC

17.) All The Small Things - Blink 182

18.) Just Like A Pill - Pink

19.) I'm Still A Rockstar - Pink

20.) Rude Boy - Rihanna


A blast from the past!! What are your favorite old school hits? Comment below

xo Sarahi

3 REASONS WHY IT'S OK TO BE SINGLE.

Relationships are like a popular trend, everyone's doing it...with the exception of some "uncool" people : the singles. But I'm here to tell you guys that thats not true.We singles rock!! Here are 3 reasons why its not so bad to be single.

WELCOME..TO THE NEW & IMPROVED SPICEADVICEXO.

Welcome to the new & updated version of  spiceadvicexo. It took a lot of work but you guys are worth it :) Enjoy.


What do you think about the new changes? Comment down below :) 

xo Sarahi

WHAT DOES YOU HAIR SAY ABOUT YOU? 3 HAIRSTYLES THAT SPEAK VOLUMES.

Just like clothes and fashion , our hair could be used as a form of self-expression. We dye it, pin it, straighten and do all sorts of crazy things to it. But what exactly do our tresses say about our personality? Here are 3 hairstyles that speak volumes :)

JUST SOME OL' MEMORIES.

i'M SO GEEKD.

A POEM FROM MY JOURNAL.

Forms of life


Flowers are in full bloom as their pollen travels in the air like mystical dust,
Enticing the humming bees to drink out of their sweet,milky nectar.
Happy to be alive, and be a part of life itself.

Trees are swaying back and forth
In the soft blowing winds.
Happy to be alive, and be a part of life itself.

The sound of kids laughing in the distance
As they grab their single dollars out of their pockets
Racing to the nearest ice cream stand.
Happy to be alive,and be a part of life itself.

The old wrinkled face peered out of the window with tired eyes.
Wrinkled hands clutching the arm rests on the sides of her rocking chair.
As she closed her eyes and the wind caressed her face,
She drifted to sleep with a wide grin, because she was happy to be alive...and be a part of life itself.

XO CLASSY.

3 EASY TIPS ON HOW TO BE A TRENDSETTER.

Look at what styles and trends are popular today.Why are these trends so popular? Why are people following this trend? If your trying to start a new trend or simply influence your close pals to change up their style , here are 3 tips on how to be a persuasive fashionista :)

L.W.

PRIMADONNA.

4 SUMMER TRENDS..FROM HEAD TO TOE!

1.) FLOWER CROWNS -  This adorable floral head piece is the perfect way to stay in style during the summer. Flower crowns are a fashion summer statement and are perfect for the summer season.

3 THINGS THAT DESTROYS FRIENDSHIPS...

There's many ways that a friendship could be disfunctional. A lot of people put up with their friends because they feel helpless, are use to being treated badly or worse, don't even realize that they're being treated badly. But these are my top 3 behaviors that cannot be accepted by anyone, no matter how close you are to them.

A POEM FROM MY JOURNAL.

Tired hearts, hearts a float.
Late night hearts
And all my hopes, are sinking down a river.

Diamonds and glistening streams.
Are not at all what they seem
They're empty images , they're make-believe...
And you always seem to believe.
It's your quick escape to a dream.

SISTER,SISTERS.

4 HELPFUL FIRST STEPS TO BREAK A BAD HABIT!

Biting my nails when I'm nervous, watching way too much T.V,and picking on my skin as soon as I see a zit forming. These are my bad habits and I'm going to make it my goal to break them!! Here are 4 first steps you can take to finally break out of your destructive bad habits if you are having trouble figuring out how to start.

FANCY COCO.

GET HEALTHY WITH ME!! MY EASY NEW WORK-OUT ROUTINE!

Aside from my new-found healthy vegetarian lifestyle, I'm starting a new work-out routine!! I'm going to be working out 3 times a week for an 1 hr. My goal for taking on this new work-out regimen is not to look better but to feel better. I want to be COMPLETELY HEALTHY INSIDE AND OUT! IM YOUNG AND I WANT TO FEEL YOUNG!

4 PRODUCTS THAT CHANGED MY SKIN FOR THE BETTER :)

I can not even tell you how many products I've been through and have been left completley dissatisfied by the results.Cleansers,exfoliators,moisturizers...you name it.The world of skin care can be really complicated sometimes, and it took me a while to find MY PERFECT SKIN CARE ROUTINE.

SHOULD I BECOME A VEGETARIAN?

So I ordered a new book from ebay a few days ago and it came in the mail yesterday. It's called "The Beauty Detox Solution" by Kimberly Snyder. As soon as it came in I began to read it and let me tell you, I'm addicted.This book is amazing and just one chapter in, It has me wanting to make some serious life changes. The first chapter talks about our bodies orgin and how biologically and anatomically, our bodies most resemble monkeys. So it's only right that we eat like them right? But... what exactly do monkeys eat you ask? Well they are herbivores.

5 SONGS THAT I WILL LISTEN TO UNTIL IM IN MY GRAVE!!

There's nothing better than music that is timeless. Music that you can listen to one day, and play months later and ask yourself " WHY DID I STOP LISTENING TO THIS SONG??". I have a couple of tracks in mind that always have me asking that question, but here are the top 5!

5 GUYS EVERY GIRL SHOULD STAY AWAY FROM!!

Guys come in all shapes and sizes. Sometimes you'll get lucky and end up with your typical handsome well-mannered prince charming, other times, not so much. I've made a list of the top 5 guys we girls look at and go screaming off in the other direction. Are you ready? :)


1.)THE SLOB

The slob is the guy that leaves a trail of his dirty socks and underwears around the house and sees nothing wrong with just being plain dirty. He's also a couch potato, (extra points if his ass is permanently indented on your couch) and his hobbies consists of : Netflix, eating yesterdays cold pizza and you guessed it...more Netflix. He's lazy, unmotivated and sees nothing wrong with his lifestyle. Leave this guy alone ladies, you'll thank me later.

3 WAYS ON HOW TO STILL SPEND TIME WITH THAT FRIEND WHO'S TOTALLY "IN LOVE"

Love, its such a wonderful thing!! But not when its causing your friend to totally ignore you and focus all of her undivided attention on her newly found boy-toy. Here are 3 tips on how to keep your close relationship with your friend without having to make her choose between you or her man.

Summer Reading?? YAY!!! My Top 3 Books :)

Wanna know how to tell if you haven't gotten your brain juices flowing in a while? PICK UP A BOOK!! Feel that tingly weird sensation going on in your head? Yeah thats your brain juices flowing!!:) I used to be an avid reader but lately I've been falling behind because I've been so into all the latest T.V. shows and my Iphone. Technology is always the culprit and The Kardashians!!! But it's never to late to put your brain through a nice healthy work-out by cracking open a book and going on a wild,crazy adventure in the comfort of your own home, and yes, even in the summer. Here are my top 3 books:

My Top 3 Fashion Influences Are...

Fashion has always been an expressive outlet for me. Since I was a little girl, I remember being so fascinated with fashion and how you could tell who someone's personality and who they are (or really want to be) by the way they dressed and the pieces that they put together. Fashion is truly an extension of who you are! The media also has a hand in influencing the public with fashion because they push certain dress styles and trends and they also constantly remind the public and let us know "whats in" and "whats out". For me the celebrities that helped shape and influence my sense of style are....

Are you in la la land?? 3 tips on how to tell if your dreams and goals could be made into a reality :)

Dreams and goals are things that push and motivate you to perform at your fullest potential now because one day you want those dreams to become a reality. But are you being realistic about your future or are you living in la la land? Here are 3 tips on how to figure that out.

Summer Nail Colors!!

Put away all of your dark, gothic vampirey colors and introduce fresh new vibrant colors to your nail polish collection that compliment the summer season. Pastel colors are in!!! Not only do pastel colors compliment the hot summer season but they also compliment YOU!! These soft neutral colors add a pop to your style and go great with any look. Try it this summer!!

FUN TIP : Wanna add some flair? Try adding a cute floral design or anything that screams summer!! Its sure to get some heads turning :)


Have a fashionable summer <3


Comment down below :)

xo Sarahi

3 EASY TIPS ON HOW TO GET OUT OF YOUR OWN WAY AND JUST DO IT!!!

It sucks to always question and second-guess yourself.To be on the verge of taking a risk and going full throttle and then suddenly...give up. I've been there, I'm extremely analytical about everything that I do and how people perceive me so I'm the QUEEN of asking questions. It's OK to ask questions for reassurance , it's not okay to over analyze things and psych yourself out from enjoying an experience or even having one. Here are three tips to help you live in the moment and get out of your own way :)

4 LIFE-CHANGING TIPS ON HOW TO DEAL WITH PEOPLE WHO ARE PERMANENTLY IN YOUR LIFE.

Ok, so this is a post that will help you deal with those pesky family members that you just can't stand. I have a sibling who I constantly butt heads with and I can never seem to get a long with. Not only does it give me a headache but it also negatively affects the people that we love and care for around us, and that my friend, isn't fair. Lets get one thing straight : Just because your biologically related to someone doesn't mean that you can't have an unhealthy horrible relationship that could potentially be really bad for you and needs to be COMPLETELY CUT OFF!! which is not a bad option but if you wanna keep things cordial, Here are my tips on how I deal with my "lovely" sisters :)

PICK YOURSELF UP!!! TIPS ON HOW TO LOOK AT YOURSELF & SMILE.

Sometimes its hard to deal with the over-whelming feelings of inferiority and a battered self-confidence. Its so hard to put away those feelings and believe in yourself,your worth, your accomplishments, who you are and what you stand for period. Whether its physical,emotional,or plain old mental , your still dealing with things that hinder your abilities and don't let you perform or live life to your fullest potential. I am one of those people and I battle myself everyday. Everyday I try to convince myself that I'm a great person and one day I'll be able to reach out to someone and touch someone like so many people have touched me. But until then, here are some things that are a temporary pick me up and I hope it works for you!